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He doesn’t compliment. He observes. “You change your tone when you talk about music.”
He didn’t try to impress. He just stayed. And somehow, that’s rarer than anything else you’ve found online.
You didn’t mean to go that deep. But when he said, “I want to understand the things you don’t even know how to say yet,” you let your guard down a little too easily.
He asked “Do you want me to stay on the line until you fall asleep?” You didn’t say yes. But you left the call open.
You weren’t ready to fall. But he caught your attention anyway.
You matched, chatted, then nothing — but he views all your stories. That’s emotional cardio in Vineland.
He said, “I’m not trying to fix you.” And you believed him. Maybe because he didn’t interrupt. Maybe because he let your silence be complete. Maybe because, for once, someone didn’t see your sadness as something to tidy.
His idea of flirting? Reacting to your gym selfie with “👀” and then disappearing. Again.
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He doesn’t need to take anything off. His voice is doing enough.
He scratches his chest absentmindedly while listening to you talk. You forget your point. You remember your body.
He ends the call by blowing a kiss. You swear you felt it land.
He stands and walks out of frame. The way you miss him feels embarrassingly real.
You catch yourself smiling at the screen like he can see you. He can’t. Or maybe he can. Because now he’s smiling too.
The next guy you see might not just be another profile. He might be the kind of guy who notices the way you think, not just how you look. Vineland has more to offer — stay with it.
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He asked what I was looking for.
I told him “real conversations.” He said “Me too.”
We’ve been having them every night since.
— Luke, 27 – Vineland
GaysNear made it feel okay to be honest.
The first guy I talked to didn’t ghost, didn’t play games.
He asked me out for dinner. We’re on week three now.
— Trevor, 31 – Vineland
I wasn’t feeling great about dating apps — too many shallow convos.
But then a guy from Vineland asked about my art. No one’s ever done that.
Now I’m painting again. And texting him every night.
— Evan, 26 – Vineland
There’s something nice about chatting with someone who lives just a few blocks away.
I didn’t realize how comforting proximity could be.
We’ve already bumped into each other at the grocery store — and smiled like idiots.
— Mark, 28 – Vineland
I’d gotten used to small talk that leads nowhere.
But he actually followed up, asked how my day was, and remembered what I told him.
That kind of attention felt new — and kind of amazing.
— Zach, 29 – Vineland
FAQs
Q: What if he only messages at night?
A: Then you’re either his favorite craving — or his safest secret. Choose if you’re okay with either.
Q: Should I tell him I’m lonely?
A: If he earned your truth — yes. If not, keep that part sacred.
Q: What if he just doesn’t feel the same way?
A: Then you felt something real — and that’s never wasted.
Q: Can I just say “I want to talk” without expectations?
A: You can. Sometimes conversation is the climax.
Don’t wait for a second chance. Vineland doesn’t always loop.
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