There’s More to Submission Than Kink Being a submissive gay man isn’t just about what happens in the bedroom. Sure, there’s kink, roleplay, and hot dom/sub dynamics—but beneath the surface, there’s an emotional landscape that often goes overlooked. Submissive men have deep desires for trust, connection, and psychological safety. Whether you’re dating one, domming one, … Read more
Gay Dating Can Be Overwhelming—We Know Gay dating can be overwhelming for anyone, but if you’re a guy dealing with social anxiety, it can feel downright terrifying. The pressure to be charming, flirty, and confident in a sea of shirtless selfies and fast-paced hookups isn’t easy. But guess what? You’re not alone—and you can absolutely … Read more
Being There for a Gay Partner with Anxiety Loving someone who lives with anxiety isn’t always easy, but it can absolutely be beautiful. In the queer world, where many of us already navigate societal pressure, trauma, and rejection, anxiety is sadly common. If your gay partner struggles with it, your support can be the safe … Read more
Kinks Are Calling—Ready to Explore? Let’s be honest—vanilla is cute, but sometimes you want the full sundae bar with whipped cream, leather, and maybe a blindfold. Whether you’re a seasoned kinkster or just kink-curious, dating in the gay world is the perfect playground to discover new turn-ons. The only rule? Stay safe, stay respectful, and … Read more
Reclaiming Power as a Bottom Let’s be real: being a bottom in the gay world comes with more assumptions than a RuPaul’s Drag Race reunion. From toxic stereotypes to fetishization, it’s easy to feel boxed in. But here’s the truth—bottoming isn’t submissive by default, and it sure as hell isn’t weak. In fact, taking it … Read more
Burnt Out on Gay Dating Apps? You’re Not Alone You open the app. Tap through a few blank profiles. Send a message. Get ghosted. Repeat. Eventually, even the horniest among us hit the wall. Gay dating apps—Grindr, Scruff, Tinder, whatever your flavor—can feel more draining than fun when burnout sets in. If you’ve been feeling … Read more
Finding Mental Health Support as a Gay Man—Online and Unfiltered Let’s be honest: therapy isn’t always easy to access, especially when you’re gay and need someone who gets your experience. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, dating burnout, coming out stress, or just the everyday microaggressions of queer life—mental health care matters. But where can … Read more
Hosting a Gay Kink-Friendly Gathering? Here’s How to Slay It Whether it’s your first time or your fifth dungeon night, organizing a gay kink-friendly gathering is a bold move—and one that can bring your community together in all the right ways. But to make it sexy, safe, and unforgettable, you need more than just a … Read more
Why More Gay Men Are Choosing Polyamory Gay men have always been creative about how we build relationships. From chosen families to open arrangements, we know that love doesn’t have to fit the heteronormative mold. Polyamory—loving more than one person consensually and ethically—isn’t just a trend. It’s a legit framework that many queer men are … Read more
Why Aftercare Matters for Gay Submissives Aftercare is more than just cuddles and a glass of water—it’s the bridge between an intense BDSM session and emotional recovery. For gay submissives, especially those exploring deep power exchange or edge play, aftercare can be the difference between feeling empowered and feeling abandoned. It’s not an optional step. … Read more
