How Prejudice and Bias Distort Gay Dating Realities More than 60% of gay men report experiencing discrimination during online dating, according to a 2023 LGBTQ+ survey. Homophobia, both internalized and external, plays a significant role in the dating lives of gay men. While society has made strides toward acceptance, subtle and overt discrimination still impacts … Read more
When Doubt Creeps In: Do Gay Men Think They’re Just Confused? The question do gay men think they’re confused is one that often comes from outside the LGBTQ+ community — but sometimes, it comes from within. Sexual orientation can be a journey, and for many gay men, that path includes moments of doubt, fear, and … Read more
What Is Internalized Gay Shame? Internalized shame is the quiet voice that whispers “You’re not good enough” — especially for being gay. It’s the residue of years spent hiding, conforming, or fearing rejection from family, religion, or society. Even in adulthood, many gay men carry shame in subtle ways: feeling unworthy of love, fearing intimacy, … Read more
