Reclaiming Power as a Bottom Let’s be real: being a bottom in the gay world comes with more assumptions than a RuPaul’s Drag Race reunion. From toxic stereotypes to fetishization, it’s easy to feel boxed in. But here’s the truth—bottoming isn’t submissive by default, and it sure as hell isn’t weak. In fact, taking it … Read more
What Gay Submissives Need to Feel Safe Submissives aren’t weak—they’re brave as hell. It takes serious trust to let go, give up control, and dive into a role where someone else is calling the shots. For gay submissives, this trust must be earned and nurtured. So what exactly do gay submissives need to feel safe—physically, … Read more
Why Cuddling Hits Different for Gay Men Cuddling isn’t just a post-sex activity – for many gay men, it’s the foreplay. The warm skin, subtle breath, casual hand on thigh… it’s intimacy in motion. In a world that often sexualizes every moment, cuddling gives us a rare mix of tenderness and tension. The Erotic Side … Read more
