What Is Internalized Gay Shame? Internalized shame is the quiet voice that whispers “You’re not good enough” — especially for being gay. It’s the residue of years spent hiding, conforming, or fearing rejection from family, religion, or society. Even in adulthood, many gay men carry shame in subtle ways: feeling unworthy of love, fearing intimacy, … Read more
Gay Dating Can Be Overwhelming—We Know Gay dating can be overwhelming for anyone, but if you’re a guy dealing with social anxiety, it can feel downright terrifying. The pressure to be charming, flirty, and confident in a sea of shirtless selfies and fast-paced hookups isn’t easy. But guess what? You’re not alone—and you can absolutely … Read more
Why Mental Health Support Groups Matter for Gay Kinksters Being kinky and gay is beautiful — but it can also come with emotional baggage. Whether it’s shame, trauma, rejection, or relationship challenges, gay men in the kink community often navigate unique mental health hurdles. That’s where support groups come in: safe spaces to unpack, heal, … Read more
