Why Vulnerability Is Hard for Gay Men Growing up gay often means growing up guarded. Many of us learned to hide parts of ourselves to survive — from classmates, family, even ourselves. Vulnerability wasn’t safe. So as adults, even in our closest relationships, we struggle to let our walls down. But vulnerability isn’t weakness. It’s … Read more
Jealousy in Gay Throuples: It Happens — And It’s Manageable Let’s get real: being in a gay throuple can be hot, joyful, and deeply fulfilling — but it can also trigger jealousy like whoa. That pang in your gut when two partners cuddle without you? Totally normal. The key isn’t to avoid jealousy, but to … Read more
Gay Breakups Hurt Differently (And That’s Okay) Breaking up sucks. But gay breakups? They hit different. Whether you were together for months or years, the end of a queer relationship can stir up unique grief — from losing your partner to losing a shared LGBTQ+ community. There’s no magic fix, but there are ways to … Read more
